விண்ணை தாண்டி வருவாயா

Movie : Vinnaithandi varuvaya
Music : A.R.Rahman
Singer : Karthik
Lyrics : Thamarai

Oone uyire,
Unnakagha thudithaen, vinmeeney..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaaaahh..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Vinmeeney varuvayaaahh..

Neytrum iravil,
Unnodu iruthaen,
Athai neeyum,
Maranthaaya maranthaayahh..
Kanavodu vizhaiyaada..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Nilavae nee varuvaayah..

Oone uyire
Unnakagha thudithaen, vinmeeney..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Oooohhhhhhhhhhh..oooohhhhhhh…..
Ooooohhhhhhhhhh..oooohhhhhh…

Uyire neeyum naanum,
Pirinthadhu puvi-eerpu maiyathil thaaney..ooooohhhhhh
Iruthuruvam serum-antha orr-idam,
Anggatheythaan naam sernthomey..
Inimel naanum neeyum pirivathillai..anbeyy..

Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Vinnaithaandi Varuvaayaa..
Vinmeeney varuvaayahhh…



Movie : Vinnaithandi varuvaya
Music : A.R.Rahman
Singers : Devan Ekambaram, Chinmayi
Lyrics : Thamarai

[Male]
anbil avan sertha idhai
manidharey verukkatheergal
vendum ena inaitha idhai
veenaaga midhikkatheergal

[Female]
uyire unnai unnai endhan
vaazhkai thunayaaga
erkindren erkindren
inimel puyal, veyil, mazhai,
paalai, solai ivai ondraaga kadappome

[Male]
unnai thaandi edhayum ennaal yosanai
seyya mudiyaathey mudiyaathey

[Chorus]
ne vana villaga aval vannam yezhaga
andha vaanam veedaga maaradho maaradho
hey jodi potty thaan hey neengal ponaaley
kan pattu kaaichal thaan vaaradho vaaradho

uyire unnai unnai endhan

vaazhkai thunayaaga
erkindren erkindren
inimel puyal, veyil, mazhai,
paalai, solai ivai ondraaga kadappome

charanam 1

[Female]
neelum iravil oru pagalum
neenda pagalil siru iravum
kandu kollum kalai arindhom
ingu indru adhai payindrom

boomi vaanam kaatru theeyai neerai maatru
pudhithaai kondu vandhu neettu

[Chorus]
ne vana villaga aval vannam yezhaga
andha vaanam veedaga maaradho maaradho
hey jodi potty thaan hey neengal ponaaley
kan pattu kaaichal thaan vaaradho vaaradho

[Male]
uyire unnai unnai endhan
vaazhkai thunayaaga
erkindren erkindren
inimel puyal, veyil, mazhai,
paalai, solai ivai ondraaga kadappome

[Female]
unnai thaandi edhayum ennaal yosanai
seyya mudiyaathey mudiyaathey

[Chorus]
ne vana villaga aval vannam yezhaga
andha vaanam veedaga maaradho maaradho
hey jodi potty thaan hey neengal ponaaley
kan pattu kaaichal thaan vaaradho vaaradho

kadhal ellam mudiyum
idam kalyaanam thaaney
indru thodangum indha
kadhal muduvilla vaaney



Movie : Vinnaithandi varuvaya
Music : A.R.Rahman
Singer : Shreya Ghoshal
Lyrics : Thamarai

[FEMALE]
Kadalinil meenaagha, irundhaval naan,
Unakkena karai thaandi vandhaval-thaan,
Thudithirunthen…tharainileh..
Thirumbivitten yen kadalidameh..

Hmmmmmmmm…
Hmmmmmmmm…

Oru naal sirithaen,
Maru naal veruthaen,
Unnai naan kollamal kondru puthaithaeney,
Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..

Oru naal sirithaen,
Maru naal veruthaen,
Unnai naan kollamal kondru puthaithaeney,
Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..
Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..

[MALE]
Kanne thadumaari nadanthen,
Noolil aadum mazhayaagi ponen,
Unnal thaan kalaignaai aaneney..
Tholai thoorathil velicham nee,
Unnai nokkiye yenai eerkiraaiyeh..

Melum melum urugi urugi,
Unnai yenni yengum
Idhayathai yenna seiveyn..

Oohhhh.. Unnai yenni yengum
Idhayathai yenna seiveyn..

[MUSIC]

[FEMALE]
Odum neeril, orr-alai thaan naan..
Ulley, ulla eeram neethaan,
Varam kidaithum naan,
Thavara vitten-mannipaaya anbey..

[MALE]
Kaatriley aadum kagidham naan,
Neethaan ennai kaditham aakinaai,
Anbil thodanggi anbil mudikkiraen,
En kalangarai vilakkamey..

[FEMALE]
Oru naal sirithen,
Maru naal veruthaen,
Unnai naan kollamal kondru puthaithaeney,
Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..
Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..

[CHORUS]
Anbirkum.. unndo adaikkum thaazh..
Anbirkum unndo adaikkum thaazh,
Aarvalar-pun kaneer poosal-tharum..
Anbilaar-ellam thamakkuriyar,
Anbudayaar endrum uriyar pirarkku,
Pulambal ena-chendren pullinaen nenjam,
Kalathal uruvadhu kanndu…

[FEMALE]
Yen en vaazhvil vandhaai kannaa nee..
Povaayo kaanal neer poley thondri..
Anaivarum uranggidum iravinum neram,
Enakkadhu thalaiyanai nanaithidum neram..

Oru naal sirithen,
Maru naal veruthaen,
Unnai naan kollamal kondru puthaithaeney,
Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya..Mannipaaya.. Mannipaaya..

[MALE]
Kanne thadumaari nadanthen,
Noolil aadum mazhayaagi ponen,
Unnal thaan kalaignaai aaneney,
Tholai thoorathil velicham nee,
Unnai nokkiye yenai eerkiraaiyeh..

Melum melum urugi urugi,
Unnai yenni yengum
Idhayathai yenna seiven..

Melum melum urugi urugi,
Unnai yenni yengum
Idhayathai yenna seiveyn..

Oohhhh.. Unnai yenni yengum
Idhayathai yenna seiveyn..

[FEMALE]
Hmmmmmm…..



Song : Hosanna
Movie : Vinnaithandi varuvaaya
Music : A.R.Rahman
Lyrics : Thamarai

[Vijay Prakash]
Yen idhayam udaithai, norungavae!?
En maru idhayam, tharuvaen nee udaikavae!

[Chorus]
Ohhh... Hosannah... Hosannah.. Oh ho ho..
Ohhh... Hosannah... Hosannah.. Oh ho ho..

[Vijay Prakash]
Antha neram andhi neram kan paarthu kanthalaagi pona neram edho aache..
Oh vaanam theendi vanthaachu appavin thittu ellaam kaatrodu poye poche..
Hosannah.. En vaasal thaandi ponaale.. Hosannah.. Verondrum seyyamale..
Naan aadi pogiraen.. Sukkoonooraagiraen.. Aval pona pinbu enthan nenjai thedi pogiraen..

Hosannah.. Vaazhvukkum pakkam vanthaen..
Hosannah.. Saavukkum pakkam nindraen..
Hosannah.. En endraal kaathal enbaen.. Hosannah.. Oh ho..

[Blaaze]
Everybody wanna know how I feel like, feel like, I really wanna be here with you.
Its not enough to say that we are made for each other its love that is Hosannah true.
Hosannah, will be there when you're calling out my name.
Hosannah, feeling like my whole life has changed.
I never wanna be the same, its time we rearrange.
I take a step, you take a step and I'm here calling out to you..
Helloooo, Halloooo, Halooo.. Hosannah..

Hosanna.. Oh ho ho ho...
Hosanna.. Oh ho ho ho...

[Vijay Prakash]
Vanna vanna pattupoochi poothedi poothedi angum ingum alaigindrathey
Oh sottu sottai thottu poga megam ondru megam ondru yengu yengo nagargindrathey
Hosanah, Pattupoochi vanthachaa? Hosanaaa, Megam unnai thottaachaa
Kilinjal aagirai naan kulanthai aagirean
Naan unnai alli kaiyil vaithu pothi kolgirean
Helloooo, Halloooo, Halooo.. Yooo.. Hosannah..

Hosanah, En meethu anbu kolla
Hosanah, Ennodu serndhu sella
Hosanah, Umm endru sollu podhum. Hosanah, oh ho

[Vijay Prakash]
Yen idhayam udaithai, norungavae!?
En maru idhayam, tharuvaen nee udaikavae!

Yen idhayam udaithai, norungavae!?
En maru idhayam, tharuvaen nee udaikavae!

Extra Lyrics
Naetru unnai paarthaene, paartha pinnae endhan kangal
Unnizhalil otti chella
Kangal thaedi kangal thaedi saalai ellaam selai thaedi
Kandukondaen kaadhal kolla

En anbe, Meendum ennai vittu odi
Kannaamoochi, Vaendumendre neeyum aadi
Irandhaen oar nodi, Pirappaen Naanadi
Un mellidhazhil millimeter punnagai kasindhaalae
Hello Hellooooo Hello Hellooooo

Hosannah, Kaagidhamaai maarinaene
Hosannah, Kaaladiyil kasangi naane
Unnalae, Kaagidhappo pookkaadho. Hosannah..



Movie : Vinnaithandi varuvaya
Singers : Benny Dayal, Kalyani Menon
Tamil Lyrics : Thamarai
Malayalam Lyrics : Kalyani Menon


[MALE]
Aa.. aahhhh adada.. penne,
Unn azhagil naan kannai simatavum ..
Maranthen..hey..aanal..hey..kandaen..hey
Orr-aayiram kanavil..hey karaiyil..
Yen aayiram iravu..
Neethan..vanthai..sendrai..
Yen vizhigal irandai thirudi kondai..

Ooooohh ohhmana penne..Omana penne..Omana penne..
Omana penne..Ooohhhmana..Ooooohh ohhmana penne
Omana penne..Omana pennnN..Omana penne..
Unnai..marandhida mudiyathey,
Omana penne..uyir..tharuvadhu saridhaaney..

Hooohhhh..nee poghum, vazhiyil nizhal-aavaen..
Hooohhhh..kaatril..asaigirathu-un seylai..
Vidigirathu-en kaali..un pechu un paarvaiii..
Nagarnthidum pagalai iraivai..oooohhhhh oooohh..
Pirinthalum, inainthaalum,
Uyir kootil, sari paathi unathey..
Un inbam, un thunbam enathu..
Yen muthalodu mudi-vaanai…

Omana penne.. Omana penne.. Omana penne..
Omana penne..Ohhhhmana..ohhhh ohhhhmana penne
Omana penne.. Omana pennN.. Omana penne..
Unnai..marandhida mudiyathey,
Omana penne..uyir..tharuvadhu saridhaaney..

[FEMALE] (Malayalam)
Maragadha-thotti-lizh..
Malayali-gal thaaraatumm,
Penn azhagaee..maathang-gal tohpugalil
Poonguyilugazh-inna-chernna,
Pullangulazh-oothugai-yaana
Ninn-azhagaehhhh..Ninn-azhagae..

[MALE]
Thalli ponaal thei-pirai,
Aagaya vennilaave..
Anggeyeh nindridhaathey..
Nee vendum..arughae..
Oru paarvai siru paarvai..
Udhirthaal udhirthaal,
Pizhaipeyn pizhaipeyn..puzhi yennn…

Omana penne.. Omana penne.. Omana penne..
Omana penne..Ohhhhmana..ohhhh ohhhhmana penne
Omana penne.. Omana pennN.. Omana penne..
Unnai marandhida mudiyathey,
Omana penne..uyir..tharuvadhu saridhaaney..

Omana penne.. Omana penne.. Omana penne..
Omana penne..Ohhhhmana..Ohhhh ohhhhmana penne
Omana penne.. OmanA pennN..Omana penne..
Unnai, marandhida mudiyathey,
Omana penne..uyir..tharuvadhu saridhaaney..

Omana penne..
Unnai, marandhida mudiyathey,
Omana penne..uyir..tharuvadhu saridhaaney..



Movie : Vinnaithandi varuvaya
Music : A.R.Rahman
Vocal: Alphonse

Mamalayeri Varum Thennal
(A breeze, which blows in through the mountains.)
Puthu Manavalan Thennal, ...
( A breeze, which is decked up like a bridegroom)
Palli Medayae Thottu Thalodi Kurushil Thozhuthu Varumbol,
(When it arrives after worshipping the cross at the altar..)
Varavelpinu MalayalaKara Manasammatham Choriyum,
( This land of Kerala will grant permission for a warm welcome )

Aaromalae, Aaromalae, Aaromalae, Aaromalae....
(O Beloved....O Beloved...O Beloved.....O Beloved...)

Swasthi Swasthi Su Muhurtham,
( This is a very auspicious occasion )
Sumungali Bhava, Manavatti
(O Bride, may you be blessed with a long wedded life)
Swasthi Swasthi Su Muhurtham,
( This is a very auspicious occasion )
Sumungali Bhava Manavatti
(O Bride..,May you be blessed with a long wedded life)

Shyama Rathri Than Aramanayil,
( In the inner sanctum of the dark night )
Mari Nilkayo Tharakame,
(O Star..why are you keeping away ? )
Pulari Manjillae Kathiroliyay,
(Like a ray of light in the morning mist,)
Akalae Nilkayo Penmaname,
( Are you standing afar, my lady ? )

Chanju Nilkuma Chillayil Nee, Chila Chilambiyo Poonkuyilae
(On the bough which is bent, O cuckoo bird, did you sing sweetly ? )
Manchiragile, Marayoliyae Thediyathiyo Poorangal
(Did the festivities come in search of the everlasting flame in the earthern lamp ?)

Swasthi Swasthi Su Muhurtham,
(This is a very auspicious occasion )
Sumungali Bhava Manavatti
(O Bride..,May you be blessed with a long wedded life)

Aaromalae... Aaromalae....
(O Beloved....O Beloved....)

Kadalinae, Karayodiniyum Padan Sneham Undo ?
(Does the sea still possess the love to serenade the shore ?)
Mezhukuthurikalayi Urukan Iniyum Pranayam Manasil Undo ?
(Is there still love in the mind..to be melted like candle wax ?)

Aaromalae.. Aaromalaeee.. Aaromalaee
(O Beloved....O Beloved...O Beloved.....O Beloved...)
Aaromalae.. Ohh.. Ho ! - (O Beloved....)



Movie : Vinnaithandi varivaya
Music : A.R. Rahman
Singer : Naresh Iyer
Lyrics : Thamarai
Kannukkul kannai utri kondey,
Illai illai-yendrayeh..
Kallam ondrai, ullai vaithu
Paarvai thanthu sendrayeh..

Kaadhal kondu naan peysa,
Katthi thooki nee veesa,
Pakkam vanthu thoottu pesum,
Kanavugal kandaen..
Innum sattrey aragey vanthu,
Mutthamum thanthaen..
Ithanai nadandhum kaathal illai,
Yenbathu sariya??!!
Aanai naanum pennai neeyum,
Irupathu pizhaiya??!!

Unn nanbanillai naan vaanin nila,
Unn nanbannillai nee yen uyirin vizha..
Unn nanbanillai naan vaanin nila,
Unn nanbannillai nee yen uyirin vizha..

Kannukkul kannai utri kondey,
Illai illai-yendrayeh..
Kallam ondrai, ulley vaithu
Paarvai thanthu sendrayeh..

Kaadhal kondu naan peysa,
Katthi thooki nee veesa,
Pakkam vanthu thoottu pesum,
Kanavugal kandaen..
Innum sattrey aragey vanthu
Mutthamum thanthaen..

[MUSIC]

Neeyum..naanum..
Orey..pulley
Orey..kodu..
Neeyum..naanum..
Vazha..poghum..
Antha..idam..
Orey..veedu..
Kaathal yendral kaayamthaan..

Anbae ododi, vanthu yen kannai paarthu..
Kaadhalthaan yendru, solli yen kaayam aatru..
Anbae ododi, vanthu yen kannai paarthu..
Kaadhalthaan yendru solli yen kaayam aatru..

Kannukkul kannai utri kondey,
Illai illai-yendrayeh..
Kallam ondrai, ullai vaithu
Paarvai thanthu sendrayeh..

Kaadhal kondu naan peysa,
Katthi thooki nee veesa,
Pakkam vanthu thoottu pesum,
Kanavugal kandaen..
Innum sattrey aragey vanthu,
Mutthamum thanthaen..
Ithanai nadandhum kaathal illai,
Yenbathu sariya?
Aanai naanum pennai neeyum,
Irupathu pizhaiya?

Unn nanbanillai naan vaanin nila,
Unn nanbannillai nee yen uyirin vizha..
Unn nanbanillai naan vaanin nila,
Unn nanbannillai nee yen uyirin vizha..uyirin vizhaa..

ஒரே ஒரு லட்ச்யம்....

I remember the very first year when i went to sabhari malai as a kanni sami.everything that i saw and experienced there was heavenly and divine..those rough tracks leading to the temple,the 48 kilometers journey...it was never ending.so tough that at one point of time i even thought i would never make it up there..maybe i was not meant to see swami ayappan at all.the worst part of it was once u start u cant turn back! as the routes are naturally like that.its meant for climbing up but if u try going back down,u may juz end up falling of some cliff and who noes even your remain wont be found.thats how dangerous the journey is,no joke..one will definately think of all his bad deeds in life while travelling up there..it somehow makes u repent and reform..ayyan will make u promise that u will never do it again and all that u would want at that moment is to see his dharisanam even if its gonna be the last thing u would see in life! well i had my fare share of repenting and regret. i even thought shouldn't have gone up there in the first place as me being an astmatic have a very very tough time climbing those mountains...
not one two but three...azhutha malai, kari malai neeli malai and finally u reach sabhari malai.along the way i realized that i was not able to go anyfurther without taking a dose of my inhaler every 5 mins..if im not wrong i finished two cannisters of it. which could have lasted me for a gd two months!but then my guruswami mokandass sami who was helping me told me to keep my medication away and call out for ayyan.only he can bring u up...u have come this far having faith only on him henceforth u are his resposibility! he will never forsake you! juz call out for him. saying that guruswami held me up and started chanting "yetrividappa thookividappa" "paatha balamthaa thega balamthaa". i juz chanted along with him although i was breathless and was only able to say it within me..within the next 4 hours i was at the top of neeli malai and this song that was playing in the temple which was another 2 km away...a beautiful number by kj yesudas...

Ore Oru Lakshyam Sabarimamala
Ore Oru Moham Divya Darsanam
Ore Oru Margam Pathinettam Padi
Ore Oru Manthram Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

Ore Oru Lakshyam Sabarimamala
Ore Oru Moham Divya Darsanam
Ore Oru Margam Pathinettam Padi
Ore Oru Manthram Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

Orumayotukooti Ozhuki Vannirunnu
Charana Pankajangal Paniyuvan Varunnu
Orumayotukooti Ozhuki Vannirunnu
Charana Pankajangal Paniyuvan Varunnu
Oruvapussu Njangalkkorumanassu Njnagalkkoru Vachassu Njalkkorutharam Vicharam
Oruvapussu Njangalkkorumanassu Njnagalkkoru Vachassu Njalkkorutharam Vicharam
Akhilarum Varunnu Ponsaranam Thedi
Akhilarum Varunnu Ponsaranam Thedi
Hariharathmaja Nee Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

Ore Oru Lakshyam Sabarimamala
Ore Oru Moham Divya Darsanam
Ore Oru Margam Pathinettam Padi
Ore Oru Manthram Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

Vanathalam Virakkum Valiya Sabdadhara
Surapatham Nadumgum Saranasabdadhara
Vanathalam Virakkum Valiya Sabdadhara
Surapatham Nadumgum Saranasabdadhara
Atavikal Kadannoo Malakalum Kadannoo
Paramapavanam Poonkavanam Kadannoo
Atavikal Kadannoo Malakalum Kadannoo
Paramapavanam Poonkavanam Kadannoo
Varikayayi Njangal Arikilayi Njangal
Varikayayi Njangal Arikilayi Njangal
Hariharathmaja Nee Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

Ore Oru Lakshyam Sabarimamala
Ore Oru Moham Divya Darsanam
Ore Oru Margam Pathinettam Padi
Ore Oru Manthram Saranamayyappa
Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

Saranamayyappa Swami Saranamayyappa

those word...it was magical.i fixed my mind to it.although i never fully understood malayaalam, 70 percent of it was understandable as its simmilar to tamil.i told myself i will only go back after seeing ayyan or else id rather die here.but the next thing i knew was the rest of the saamimaargal were before me..they went up and were waiting for us..cheering me on as all of them knew i had trouble during the journey due to my asthma..we continued the next 2km walk togetherand the next thing i knew, i was infront of the golden pathinettaam padi! it was unbelivable as these very 18 holy steps are belived to be self formed by ayyan's baanam.we went up and what i saw up in the sannithaanam juz made me cry like a baby.in that room surrounded by gold and many lit lamps was my ayyan ayappan seated like a three year old toddler.so much of life within him and that cute little eyes of his...whatever i wanted to pray for i forgot totally and all i could do was to juz admire his beauty...from that day till today ayyan has blessed me with 12 years of his glorious darisanam.although i didnt go to sabari malai the last three years due to unforseen reasons,i observed my fast and offered my irumudi kaanikkai here in singapore at sri vairavimada kaliamman temple ayappa sannidhanam.this year fasting will commence on the 16th of november. my 14th year of observing the mandala viratham(48days)...hope to make it to sabari this year to see my ayyan as i miss him soo dearly..cant wait. its not going to be easy climbing those tracks again after three years of gap and furthermore i think i have put on more weight but with faith on him and his full blessings im sure i will make it..one thing is for sure! even the most fittest man on earth will fail without belive and faith but one who has the utmost faith in him and surrenders to him with a heart of a child will be blessed with a safe journey and his divine dharisanam.swami ayyappan will be with his devotees always and blessthem with everything in life..human lifes are full of ups and downs, definately not a bed of roses but with constant thoughts of him and a quick prayer in mids of hardships, everything will definately land in place..we hear of miracles,ayyan performs it his devotees life all the time...i have seem many alonmg the years of my life..he has proven that he exists to some i know, why even to me in a few cases...but all these are only to be felt by you not to be said...my "ore oru lakshyam" in life...to see ayyan at sabhari as long as there is strength in my body and to surrender myself at his feet and serve him till the end of my days!
SWAAMIYE SHARANAM AYAPPA!
OM SHAKTHI!

forever together ........?

Friends are friends forever together ’till the end. You promised me that you would always be my friend. One day something changed I’m not sure what it was. I lost you on that day and the reason was because it was a late dark night and we had a stupid fight. And for some reason, I don’t know why, we couldn’t make it right. We went our separate ways. This went on for days and days. I made no friends but you made yours, but that hole in my heart could not be filled for that hole was only yours. Times got really tough, my road of life was, oh, so rough. I needed friends, not the kind you see from day to day, but the kind that will always and forever stay. Memories were all I had and just the thought of them made me sad. I cried every night wondering how to make it right. I wish you could erase that day and that fight. Would you please forgive me? I don’t know where to start. It hurts me so bad to have this hole in my heart! I don’t want our friendship to totally end. I need you! You are my best friend! remember we make a promise to stay together ’till the end? A vow to each other to ALWAYS be BEST FRIENDS? A promise of yes that does turn to no, is a sad and painful review. It runs through your mind, thoughts bad and unkind, self doubt displaces the truth. You tend to accept your inner most faults instead of just looking toward pain. You beat yourself down, your head to the ground the feeling just drives you insane. So if you give your word, a promise to one, prepare to make it come true . For if you turn sour, change your mind in the hour then you’re painting the others world blue… My Friend when I think of you. I think of all that we’ve been through. All the times we argue and fight, I know deep inside that it isn’t right. I, then feel bad and alot of pain. It feels like I’ve fallen from the sky like the rain. I love you dear friend with all of my heart. But now that you’re leaving I’ve fallen apart. I don’t noe if I’ll get better as the days go by. I wish sometimes this was all a big lie. I pray for you every night. It’s like you’re my fire, a burning light. My dear friend, I miss you alot. I still wonder why we were put in that spot. I know you’re in a place much better than here. watching me go thru the test with despair and fear..Our friendship my dear friend, do we have to the end? Friends til the end is what we will be,forever, till the end! Someday we’ll be together, together you and me.till that day comes, I’ll wait eagerly….

cant belive i wrote this for a useless piece of shit whom i thought was my friend...then i post this while we had a tiff.another friend whom i had a little misunderstanding with thought i wrote this for her as she has a habit of viewing online profiles of people whom she may not be in talking terms...so this gundu friend of mine actually thought this was written for her! posted a shout out on her proflie saying "i forgive you" and waited for me to message her back like i was viewing her profile religously every day...lol! in the end i never called her instead was trying to make my so called best friend who was a back boneless,chauvinist,ungreatful,hypocritical moron who was trying to push his luck when i was trying apologise even though it was not my fault...how dumm i was to have faith n trust on such a waste for all those years that i "imagined" we were the best of buddies and there was never a friend like him...BULLSHIT! IN THE END...
i actually made it up with my "chachat" friend who waited for my reply. and threw away someone or something.. id rather say, away from my life. howevea this my work and for that sake im reposting this again as currently im in my real best friend's house with her hubby, the chachat friend and a few other buddies eating the mutton perattal which her husband cooked ( simply fantalishtically yummy!)and recollecting all the past… and guess what loser we had the last laugh.....just would like to tell u thanks for identifyin my true friends...and that i was was not worthless,it was you! i value diamonds now not hardened rock like looking shit! hahahahahaha....
i noe u will read this sooner or later as i KNOW U HAVE THAT HABIT OF POKING NOSE INTO PEOPLE'S AFFAIR EVEN IF THEY ARE LEAST BOTHERED ABOUT YOU...You noe why? i was a true friend afterall, i understood ur habits...just that i didnt realise that u were a mere fake bastard! lol!
recollect it now,it seems like a big joke...
and im sure u will laugh your hearts out my darling buddies,enjaay.
ciao!

SOME INSTRUCTIONS IN LIFE:

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Always be expressive to ur loved ones about how much u love and appreciate them,never hide your feelings

3. Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have, or sleep all you want.
4. When you say "I LOVE YOU", mean it.
5. When you say "I’M SORRY", look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least 6 months before you get married.
7. Remember your friend’s birthday. Be thankful for his/her presence in your life.
8. A lover laugh at anyone dreams. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name-calling.
11. Don’t judge people by their relatives and friends.
12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask "Why do you want to know?"
14. Remember that great love great friendship and great achievements involve great risks.
15. Say, "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
16. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. .
17. Remember the 3 R’s. Respect for self., Respect for others; Responsibility for your actions.
18. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19. When you’ve realized you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21. Marry someone you love to talk to. As you get older, the conversational skill will be as important as any other.
22. Spend some time alone.
23. Open your arms to change but don’t let go of your values.
24. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
25. Read more books and watch less TV.
26. Live a good honorable life. When you get older and think back, you’ll enjoy it a second time.
27. Trust in GOD but lock your car.
28. A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil and harmonious home.
29. In disagreements with loved ones or friends, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
30. Read between the lines.
31. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
32. Be gentle with the earth.
33. Pray. There’s immeasurable power in it.
34. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
35. Mind your own business.
36. Don’t trust a man/woman who doesn’t close his/her eyes when you kiss.
37. Once a year, go some place you’ve never been before.
38. If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.,
39. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
40. Learn the rules to break some.
41. Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
42. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
43. Remember that your character is your destiny.
44. Approach love,friendship and cooking with reckless abandon.

45. life is short..live it to the fullest and make it a meaningful one.

ARUGEMENTS GUIDELINES

Anyone trying to attain a disagreement
free relationship is looking for a
Utopian ideal they’ll never find. No
matter how hard your efforts, you’re
going to disagree about something your
partner says or does at least a few
times. The attention you give to
avoiding arguments would be more wisely
spent learning how to make the most of
a disagreement.

Many people compare life to a game that
we play. If life is a game, then
arguing is one tactic of playing that
game. Since you know at some point
you’re going to be involved in a
disagreement with your partner, it
makes sense for you both to learn the
rules of this particular area of the
game. Let’s face it; no one truly
enjoys being upset. If you’re arguing
you can’t be loving. These argument
guidelines were created to help you
discover what the disagreement is
really about, handle the problem and
get back to loving each other.

Listed below are guidelines you should
both agree to follow. Consider them
your rules of engagement.

1. Don’t talk if you’re too emotional
about the situation.
Things you say in the heat of the
moment have a way of leaving a damaging
mark on your relationship. Instead of
lashing out while you’re still
emotional, go out and take a 10 to 20
minute walk. Getting away from the
situation will help you cool off and
gain a much-needed new perspective.

2. Leave the past where it belongs…in
the past.
It is a natural tendency to want to
compare current situations to other
situations that may have occurred in
the past. It gives us our sense of
security and pattern in life.
Unfortunately, no one wants to
continually be reminded of their past
wrong-doings. By bringing up everything
you don’t like about them or what
they’ve done, it can emotionally push
your partner away from you. Who wants
to be around, or open up to, someone
who only makes them feel bad about
themselves? Keep your disagreements
about the problem you are actually
dealing with at this time.

3. Take turns relaying your viewpoints.
Let one person say what is bothering
them first. Then, let the other person
rebuttal or give their viewpoint.
Continue until you both feel like the
other person has understood what you’re
saying. Remember though, just because
your partner may not agree with you
does not mean they didn’t hear or
understand what you’re saying. The goal
of a disagreement is not to bend the
other person to your thoughts or side
of the story. It is to come to an
agreement, mutually, that benefits all
people involved.

4. Try to really understand your
partner’s viewpoint.
It is so easy to get caught up in how
we have felt wronged, that many times
we forget to truly take a look at the
other person’s viewpoint on the
situation. Really put yourself in their
shoes, and see how you would have acted
differently in the same situation. More
often that not, you’ll find after an
honest look, you would have done the
same thing.

5. Find a solution to the problem
together.
Once you’ve both identified that there
is a problem, and what the exact
problem is, you need to come to a
solution that benefits each other. To
do this, each person should be
responsible for coming up with a
solution they feel will end the
problem. Share your ideas and agree to
a compromise, if needed, to the
situation.

love…wonderful yet painful at times.

Thinking of you
Someone somewhere dreams of your smile
and while thinking of you says life is
worthwhile.So whenever you’re lonely
remember its true someone somewhere is
thinking of you.

If you love something set it free.If
it returns it was meant to be if it
does not then it was never yours to
begin with.

It hurts to love someone and not be
loved in return.But what is more
painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person
know how you feel,and then regret it.

We do not love people because they are
beautiful.But they seem beautiful to
us because we love them.

Love is seeing yourself in someone’s
eyes.And finding yourself in
somebody’s heart…!!!

Always be happy.always wear a smile
not because life is full of reasons to
smile but because your smile itself is
a reason for many others to smile.

No one is born happy but all of us are
born with the ability to create
happiness.So smile you wouldn’t know
who is missing that and you may have
taken someone’s breath away.

Before meeting you i was nothing…
you taught me everything…Now i have
become something…But i need you and
your love in each and in every moment
of my life…!

God has given us 24 hours to spend a
day…8 hours to sleep,8 hours to work
and 8 hours to spend time with our
family…But i spend the 24 hours..
Thinking of you…!

It is not the presence of someone that
brings meaning to life but it’s the
way someone touches your heart.which
gives life a beautiful meaning!

Love is when you take away the feeling
the passion,and the romance in a
relationship and find out that you
still care for that person.

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong
people before meeting the right one so
that when we finally meet the right
person,we will know how to be greatful
for that gift……

The Beginning...

hi peeps....
the beginning of my blog, and before i start to let my words wander, i shall not let you ponder.
i am Vicnesh, a person with many dreams...
yet to achieve all of them,
but will do it somehow before i rest in peace.A person who takes every day as it comes...
i always seem to have different point of view on everything,but i usually keep my views with me. but if u are willing to share my views then im willing to tell you you... Tats me....
i love music, bhajans, the arts,reading,eating,singing,blogging and many more.... but most of all i love my family,friends,my religion and the one and only divine mother i worship.anything and everything about her.
you will read lots about amma and her worship here in the near future.so without waiting any further,
i would like to start blogging about someone i love the most in the entire universe. do feel free to follow up my blog and leave your valueble comments on my blogspot... enjoy reading and tata for now,
with love,
Vicnesh
swami sharanam......